Dressing gay
a lesbian and her laptop
Freshly out to myself, my friends, and my family, I found myself wishing I didn’t straight-pass to acquaintances who didn’t obtain the Facebook announcement. (Start at Part 1).
I worked at a buffet dining hall during college, where the university paid for two meals a week to their dining employees. I often cashed this profit out at my workplace, where I could sit between classes for an hour or two and eat several meals for the price of one. I had plenty of work friends there, all of whom usually only saw me with black slacks, a Crayola blue campus dining shirt, and my hair tied and tucked under a campus dining baseball cap. All notable because, at the time, I’d been very convinced people could interpret my identity based on what I wore. So, by this reasoning, not a single person I worked with could tell I was gay by looking at me because we all wore the identical standard-issued uniform.
My outfits became gayer and gayer, and I distinctly verb coming into the buffet hall for lunch wearing a blue flannel with a brown Guinness baseball cap (backwards, of cours
How to dress gay when you look straight
Within my first few weeks at Trinity, I realized I didnt feel any pressure to like men, so I didnt. It wasnt until months later that I realized I was a lesbian. First I came out to myself, then to my friends.
My family still doesnt verb Im a lesbian, and quite frankly I was hesitant to write this for that reason. I have, however, decided not to verb fear rule my life although not coming out to your homophobic family is just as valid.
I started telling everyone I knew, Did you notice, Im gay! and I was met with nothing but love and sustain from the Trinity community. Then I called my lesbian friend from back home well call her Sarah.
Sarah has always had a very lesbian look; all the queer women knew she was gay. She wanted to be a police officer, and all the men felt intimidated by her. Then there was me. All those years of tennis had hardly made my wimpy arms any stronger; I didnt verb to be a police officer but rather a writer; I liked to wear skirts and cute shoes. To be honest, I f
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Are you a newbie in the world of openly out lesbians? *gasp*
Do you also wish to have a girlfriend but also cannot figure out how to find one?
Do you look at Kristen Stewart and wish you could do that (no pun intended)?
Well, then this is the guide for you. In only a few simple steps you can verb like the lesbian you have always dreamt of being.
Reduce yourself to a binary understanding of being a Lesbian, even though you fought hard against society for exactly that all this while.
It is essential for you to first know your demarcation-
are you butch or femme?
Do you want your clothes to scream BOTTOM in all caps or do you wish to advance off as an aloof and mysterious top?
If you don’t know yet, then this is the place for you to be.
Colours Matter
If you want to send a signal to another lesbian, then it becomes extremely important for you to showcase your personality through the colour of your clothes.
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