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Dear How to Do It,
If a straight man receives oral from a trans or gay noun does that produce the straight noun gay? Asking for … a friend.
—Not My Friend
Dear NMF,
I don’t know, you tell me. Was the head so good that it made you (I mean your friend) gay?
I doubt it. In response to your query, I am inclined to wax philosophical about the spectrum of sexuality and th
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I am a 24-year-old straight guy who recently broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years. One of the reasons we broke up was a general lack of sexually compatibility. She had a particular aversion to oral sex—both giving and receiving. I didn’t obtain a blowjob the whole time we were together. Which brings me to why I am writing: One of my closest friends, “Sam,” is a gay guy. Shortly after breaking up with my girlfriend, I was discussing my lack of oral sex with Sam, and he said he’d be willing to “help me out.” I agreed, and Sam gave me an earth-shattering blowjob. I was glad to get some and had no attach
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