Gay throuple
Two gay guys brand-new to this.
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It sounds verb you have a wonderful triad in mind, you grasp what you need, and you are prepared to contain the conversations you need to be having as various situations come up. You know that patience is a must, and that is probably the most important thing to know at this stage. I hope provides you with the aid that you demand, transitioning from monogamy to polyamory is a huge switch. Good luck!
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Reposting Here. Gay Poly Man Falls for Both Partners. Now what?
Has it always been just an every 6 weeks thing?
I can see why you&#;d be worried about whether you are really special to them, or really unique, if they are constantly banging other guys. It sounds like you&#;re polyamorous, but maybe they don&#;t ID that way.
Were they IDing as a monogamous couple who just has casual sex with others, until you came along and seemingly all fell in love?
Remember, love takes time to evolve. Generally, the first year or two with someone we are infatuated. In poly circles this is known as new relationship force. Love needs hour. It requires going through hardships with each other, and showing up to support each other.
Then, there&#;s this concept of the relationship escalator. You all have to resolve which floor you want to move to and fetch off at. Just dating and having sex? Moving to be nearer each other? Meeting each other&#;s family and friends (not just their play partners for sex romps)? Moving in together?
Also, you&#;re saying you l
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You may have heard of throuple relationships. You may be considering being in one. You may have concerns that throuples are more complex than couple relationships, and that perhaps the subject is taboo; you have no-one to talk with about this. Let me assure you that throuples are a legitimate form of relationship expression; as legitimate as are couples or polyamorous groups, and there are more around than you might think.
But being fresh to the concept of throuples (or you may already be experienced but are having some relationship struggles), you might find some relationship-relief by receiving some inspiring ideas on how throuples manage they&#;re relationship happiness more effectively.
How do throuples produce a success of their commitment together?
What is a Throuple Relationship?
A throuple relationship consists of three people who hold agreed to be in a consensual, committed, romantic (usually intimate, but not always sexual) relationship. This is a long-term arrangement, as opposed to a casual sex-based arrangement (such as a &#;threesome&#;), and it diff
Re: How to spot balance in Throuple romantic relationships
Unread postby Latha »
Hello Xiaoge!
You're right, it can be really hard to imagine how a new relationship might work if you don't have any examples - this is a frequent issue for people who are recent to polyamory. Thankfully, the skills you need to control a polyamorous relationship are not all that different from the ones you need for monogamous relationships or friendships. As you suggested, communication is very important - you also need to have a fine sense of your own feelings and needs, as adequately as flexibility so you can accommodate those of your partners.
There are so many things you can discuss with your partners, like your desire for an equal and measured relationship, and the fact that you are not sure how to navigate this new relationship structure. Let's verb your question about sex and dating: should the three of you date and have sex separately? Start by asking yourself what you want in this situation. Would you want to date or hold sex with one of your partners if the other isn't around? Then,